Archive for April, 2009

Today I wanted to talk about 7 mistakes that can literally kill your chances to get your ex back. You will be surprised…

What I constantly see and read about in the emails I get from men all over the world (and seems naturally to them) actually ensures they will never get back together with their girlfriend. Isn’t that shocking?

Does any of the following sound familiar to you?

1. Acting depressed so your ex girlfriend will feel bad about the break up.

2. Being overly nice and telling her how much you love her over and over again.

3. Calling her half drunk in the middle of the night… Surprisingly, I see a lot of men do this! Not only would this freak out your ex girlfriend, but would also worsen your already bad situation, ruining your chances to get her back forever.

4. Telling your girlfriend you will change and things will be different.

5. Trying to drag your ex into an argument or using logic to persuade your girlfriend to come back to you. Women usually make decisions based on emotion, not logic (if you want more details on how to leverage her emotions, join my free newsletter right now!).

6. Buying her flowers, gifts or anything of that nature. This will make her feel like you are trying to buy her feelings! Don’t do this…

7. Telling her that you will always be there for her. I can’t stress enough how important it is to NOT be there for her any time she needs you (or, at least, don’t let her know that you will… under no circumstances).

Another mistake that guys usually make is giving out her secrets to your friends. Under the influence of anger, a lot of people reveal very personal secrets of their ex… Not only would this mistake will make your ex feel embarrassed, but she will never be able to trust you again. I didn’t include this one in the top 7 because it doesn’t have immediate effect… but it can really hurt your future relationship with her.

These mistakes will only further push her away from you. What I’ve tested and actually works, very often seems counter-productive (because most guys are naturally doing the oposite!) but, I assure you everything you’re going to learn is based on a deep rooted female psychology. I’m talking about stuff she has no control over and that really makes her tick, because every action you will take is subordinated to the way she is naturally programmed to behave.

If you wish to discover how to trigger these emotions, join my free newsletter now! You will then get in-depth information on how this stuff works and how it can help you get your ex girlfriend back.

Why Women Leave

Women tend to be a lot more concerned about their relationships and marriages than men. Most of the books on marriage and relationships are bought by women, but, they also file for a divorce twice as often as men do.

In many cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners without ever thinking of leaving the relationship AS LONG AS THEY FEEL ONE PRIMARY EMOTION.

There are a lot of reasons why women would end a relationship, such as infidelity, neglect and disrespect, but, shockingly, the real reason why they take action and break up with their man is THE LOSS OF ATTRACTION.

Note that attraction is not a conscious choice for women (in other words, they don’t decide to feel attracted to certain guys because they give them flowers and treat them right being overly nice and telling them over and over how much they love them).

You need to learn how to create attraction and this really isn’t the advice you’ve got from your mother…

If you get this part right, you will not only be able to get your ex back, but, also, make other women feel massive amounts of attraction towards you…

And you will see how easy it is, but…

ATTENTION “NICE GUYS”!

This task is extremely dangerous (especially at this point in your relationship) because it’s very easy for you to start acting like a wussy and kill all the attraction she might still feel for you.

Becoming overy nice, telling her how much you love her over and over again or trying to almost bribe her with flowers, gifts or anything of that nature will only further push her away from you…

It’s a set of mixed messages (which often seem very counter-productive) that you need to send her with each of your actions… Yes, this is very counter-intuitive but everything is based on deep rooted female psychology… and it works really, really well!

You need to learn how to push her hot buttons and make her feel attracted to you again (and this is what all the stuff I’m showing you does to perfection). So, if you need to go advanced with these psychological tricks, please join my list and get her back – FAST!