A breakup is a very emotional trying time, but, if you want to learn how to get her back to you, you need some planning first… Here are 5 easy steps you need to take if you want another chance:

1. Break contact. As crazy as this might seem, you need to reduce as much as you can, or, if possible (i.e. you don’t live or work toghether), break any contact with her for at least 3 to 4 weeks. It’s not going to be easy. Actually, you will hate it because you will miss her very bad.  But, guess what… she’s going to miss you too and that’s the point. People only realize the true value of something when it’s gone. Give her the opportunity to miss you! If you don’t give her the chance to feel lonely, you actually help her recover from the break-up faster by being there for her even more than she needs you and, eventually, to move on with another guy. To learn more about this method, please, enter your name and email address in the form you see on the right column of this page.

2. Think about the mistakes you’ve made. Sometimes, women tell you what you did wrong when they break up, but, in most cases, they don’t, or, even worse, what they tell you does not help at all, either because they are consciously lying to you in order to avoid hurting your feelings even more, or because that’s really what they think… But, in most cases, when a women decides to break up with her man, she isn’t making a logical decision, but an emotional one. They usually give you a surface reason and you need to go way beyond that. But, let me save you some time: my bet is that she doesn’t feel attracted to you anymore. As I said in another article, in most cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners before taking the action to break up, as long as they still feel attracted to their men.  If you want to learn more about how to get her feel attracted to you again, just sign up to my free tips using the form on the top-right of this page.

3. Stop making abvious mistakes. If your relationship ended because you’ve cheated on her or some other obvious mistake, stop doing it. But, please, don’t call and tell her how you’ve changed… There are a lot of ways to let her notice everything by herself and this is an essential step… See, when she comes to a conclusion on her own, she tends to defend that idea in her mind even if you mess up again… It’s very powerful stuff and will give you some margins for errors and, trust me, you need this, especially at this point in your relationship. But don’t stop here… Here’s  an article about 7 mistakes you need to avoid when trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Click on the link and make sure you read it.

4. Get your life back. Pick up the phone and call your old friends.  Do it right now and have some fun! I know what tough times you are going through and I also know that no women wants a needy guy… So, get your life back as quick as possible! This is the time to catch up with your old friends and rediscover your old hobbies. If  you’re not doing it already, start going to a gym! It will help you look and feel better. Get busy and stop thinking about her all the time. But, when you do, force yourself to think of other girls, even hotter… or, if that’s not ok with you, think of what you would do with a million dollars. It will help you get in a better mood.

5. Re-establish contact. A lot of guys have had a lot of success with only the first four steps, but, if your ex girlfriend didn’t try to contact you after 4 weeks… it’s ok to contact her again (but, remember, only after 3-4 weeks of no contact). Call her and have a light conversation about whatever. Tell her that you just wanted to see if she’s ok or anything like that. Don’t bring up anything about your past relationship. Don’t ask her if she’s sleeping with someone and, please, do not brag about how many women you’re sleeping with either! Make sure you end the conversation first (crucial!). It makes her realize that you time is limited again… Once you’ve the re-established contact, you will eventually start spending time togheter. Let her know that you think the breakup was for the good and you don’t want to lose such a good friendship.

At this point, you will have a chance to get her back. But you need to be prepared. Get your skills up and be ready for this moment. If you are serious about getting her back in your arms, please enter your information in the form you see on this page for even more free tips.