It has been quite some time since your girlfriend gave you the bird. And you are the least chirpy about it. You thought Time the great healer will help you recover from the break-up, and that you would be ok in no time! But you have just realized that with the passing time, the void left by your ex-girlfriend just grows bigger and deeper. Well isn’t it high-time that you took a call to reconcile with her, before you get timed-out from her life?

It indeed takes a brave heart, to dig up the past and face the skeletons of wrong, popping out to blame you. Brace yourself up. Everybody makes mistakes. And constant self-reproach or reprimanding will not nullify the problem. The crux lies in looking beyond the problem and finding a solution. Dwelling on the problem alone and perpetual worrying will only aggravate your state of mind. It will shut you out from any glimmer of hope or confidence, which can gear you up, to look ahead and act.

So, first take a deep breath and think, backtracking to the start of the relationship with your ex-girlfriend. What initiated the rapport, what sustained it against odds, some nitty-gritty details that have enlivened your relationship, those moments of laughter, joy or sorrow, which you and your ex have shared hand-in-hand. And lastly what pinched your girl so bad that she broke the relationship and became your ex.

Once you have retraced to the core issue, follow the 3-R mode of action to win your ex-girlfriend back. The 3-R or what is described as Reflect, Research, Re-do chart gives you a clear picture about the course of action to be taken, leading you back to your ex. The first step or Reflect helps you to think back. Identify the cause that led to the disastrous effect. Here you need to deal with the issue objectively as if you are a third party trying to analyze and interpret. By doing this, you come out with an unbiased opinion of the whole scenario. What should have been done and what could have been avoided to save the relationship. A silly comment aggravated by a callous attitude might have not only turned her off, but shattered her faith in you as well. Try to recall other such instances. Correlate the events. With the data thus obtained on reflection move to the step two or Research. You have the data-sheet on hand. You cannot undo the damage, but you could definitely do some research as to what is the best possible way make up for it. More than a soothing balm, what you could offer your ex that would efface her wounds and make you the current of her life?

Step three or Re-Do. Your groundwork starts here, to lay a stronger foundation for the relationship to flourish. Present yourself , not as a self-sympathetic person but someone who has almost undergone a self-realization, has understood his follies and is genuinely willing to prove himself if given a chance. Express but do not exaggerate. An ex-girlfriend is bound to sceptical about all she has to see and sense about her ex. Be crisp and not too mushy with words. And clearly without mincing words, accept your mistakes and let her know that you have realized all about the sense and sensibility of being sensitive to her sentiments and ask her forgiveness. You cannot expect instant reaction. If men have their ego, women have their pride. Let time alone give it space and thought and before you start biding your time, you probably would see your ex back, to join hands with you in your space!

Now listen carefully!

I don’t want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever… She will eventually going to find somebody else and she is going to hook up with him…They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex… so on and so forth…

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